Changes

[beowabbit]

Yesterday one of my partners (who live 5000 miles away) broke up with the other one. All three of us have been having a very rough time lately. I think it remains to be seen how this is going to affect my own life.

I love them both, and hope they can stay friends and have a healthy little-r relationship, and take good care of themselves. And I hope I weather this OK myself. Feel free to send me calming vibes.

Comments

[missdimple.livejournal.com]

*missdimple sends hugs* You're going to be just fine...I know it to be so. You love them both and love is never wrong. Relationships always come in your life to teach you something...it will be wonderful to see what they taught each other. Try not to think of it as a loss...just a change. I do know that you could stand things to stop changing for a while. Call if you need to...:)

[tikva.livejournal.com]

Oh no. :( *hugs* I'm sorry, hon. Please let me know if you need anything.

[danger-chick.livejournal.com]

I'm really sorry to hear about that. If you need anything during the day, you know where to find me. I'm going to be on campus a little late today if you want to get coffee.

I know that you are going to be fine in the end. You might have some bumpy times ahead of you emotionally, but I am sure that you will weather them with aplomb. If all else fails, you can come to my office and kick and scream in pain. After all, it's used to it by now.

[magid.livejournal.com]

*sends calming vibes*

[curly-chick.livejournal.com]

I can tell how much these two mean to you. Sending healing vibes and good thoughts*

[sythyry.livejournal.com]

Heavens... that's got to be terribly hard.

*HUG*.

[beetiger.livejournal.com]

*hugs and pets and calm thoughts* I'm really sorry to hear about this. I'll be thinking of you.

[beowabbit]

*hugs and pets and calm thoughts*

Thanks so much! I hope they're snakes or fish; I'm not home enough to take good care of a dog, and I'm allergic to cats.

[Mood: happily petted]

[beowabbit]

Thanks to everybody for your kind thoughts! *Hugs*

[keyne.livejournal.com]

I'm sending lots of calming vibes your way, and I'll add a few when we see you Saturday. :)

[(Anonymous)]

I share your sadness. It is often sad when two excellent people cannot be excellent to each other. Being so far from them must make it all the harder.

*HUGS*
--wex

[quirkstreet.livejournal.com]

[calmly thinking] Waaah!

So sorry, honey.

[wispfox.livejournal.com]

Wow, I'm sorry. *hugs* and *calming vibes* to you.

[mattlistener.livejournal.com]

*hugs to all*

[volta]

*hugs*

I was wondering how this might be affecting you when I first read of it. Take care of yourself, and stay calm.

[hrafn.livejournal.com]

Wow. Good luck with everything, and take care of yourself.

[tikvah.livejournal.com]

Oh dear! I'm sad for you, and for them. Hugs and calming vibes for you, and for each of them.

[mrf-arch.livejournal.com]

*hugs*

[bitty.livejournal.com]

oh! *hugs* if you need anything, just let us know. we're good at supplying sugar and hugs.

[tikvah.livejournal.com]

And next time you talk to either of them, please let them know that I'm very sad for them, and that if there were anything I could do to make things a little less difficult or painful, I'd do it in a heartbeat, if I didn't live so far away.

hugs hugs hugs

[purrfab.livejournal.com]

I'm so sorry. I hope you and they emerge through the rocky time with as little pain as possible. Sitting with change is something I find challenging.

[serenaneres.livejournal.com]

I'm so sorry to hear about this. (And sorry to be so late in responding.) My thoughts are with you.