I have had Gregory Fenton at Fenway as a PCP for years; not sure if he is accepting new patients and he is only in on Thursdays (he is at JRI the rest of the week, I think), but he was willing to give me a referral for a sleep study when I asked a few years ago, does great followup stuff via email, and is entirely comfortable with queer, poly, kinky (as well as gender-bending or free) patients. He has never rushed me through an appointment, has recommended acupuncture/massage/chiropractic over pills when useful, and has never mocked me for not taking his advice...in general, he fits your requirements except for possibly the taking new patients thing -- but he should be in tomorrow.